I don't remember much before the age of nine, that's when I met my real sperm donor and decided to see what he was like for myself.i should've listened to my mom, because she was right. Anyways life went downhill from there, he molested me when I was 12, and did time in prison for it. As for me, it was drinking, one mental place after another.I chose to forgive him when he got out and he raped me when I was 19 after having sex with my friend.I went to prison for choosing to be with an alcoholic abuser and he was not letting me have custody of our kids.But even after all that I'm doing ok now I've moved out of state and have a wonderful man by my side whom I've known since I was nine.So I believe that patience is the key in healing and you shall have happiness after that.